"I hate maths." If you've heard those words, take heart — dislike of maths is almost always about experience, not ability. Change the experience, and the attitude follows. Here's how.
First, understand the "why"
Children rarely hate maths itself. They hate feeling stupid, rushed, or bored. Find which one it is:
- Feeling stupid? They need success at an easier level first.
- Feeling rushed? Remove time pressure for a while.
- Feeling bored? Add games, stories and real-world meaning.
Strategy 1: Connect maths to what they love
A child obsessed with cricket? Calculate run rates and averages. Loves baking? Double the recipe together. Gaming? Talk scores, levels and probabilities. Maths instantly matters when it's about their world.
Strategy 2: Replace worksheets with games
Dice games, card games, board games and puzzles deliver the same practice without the dread. (See our post on brain-boosting math games for ten ideas.)
Strategy 3: Make it physical and visual
Abstract symbols overwhelm many kids. Use objects — coins, blocks, an abacus — so numbers become something they can see and touch. This is exactly why hands-on tools like the abacus work so well for maths-averse children.
Strategy 4: Celebrate effort, not just answers
Praise the trying: "I love how you didn't give up on that one." This rewires maths from a threat into a challenge worth attempting.
Strategy 5: Keep it short and end on a win
Five focused, positive minutes beat thirty stressful ones. Always stop while your child still feels capable, so the last feeling about maths is a good one.
Strategy 6: Watch your own words
If you sigh "ugh, maths," your child learns maths is awful. Model curiosity instead — even fake enthusiasm helps at first.
Frequently asked questions
My child says they're 'just not a maths person.' Is that true? No. Decades of research show maths ability grows with practice. "Not a maths person" is a belief, not a fact — and beliefs can change.
How long until their attitude improves? With consistent, positive, low-pressure practice, many parents see a shift within a few weeks.
A fresh start with a fresh approach
Sometimes a child just needs maths to feel different — hands-on, game-like and pressure-free. That's the heart of our abacus and mental-maths classes. Book a free demo and let your child rediscover that maths can actually be fun.
Priti Gupta
Founder & Lead Instructor
Priti Gupta is a certified abacus and Vedic Maths instructor with over a decade of experience training 5,000+ students across India. She is passionate about making mathematics accessible, enjoyable, and empowering for every child — regardless of their starting level. Through Priti Ganit Guru, she has helped thousands of young learners develop confidence, speed, and a genuine love for numbers.